Why get married in church?
Whether or not you are a regular churchgoer, getting married in church
allows you to make solemn promises to the one you love, not only in
front of your family and friends, but also in the sight of God and with
God's blessing.
If you choose to get married in church, there is an added dimension
- the assurance that God cares about your relationship and that his
resources and strength are available to help you. Including God in your
marriage doesnt mean that you will avoid all the usual ups and
downs, but you will know that you can look to God for help and guidance
and that his love will sustain you. You will also have the support and
encouragement of the Christian Church family.
What do Christians believe about marriage?
Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God. In the marriage
ceremony, a couple make a public declaration of lifelong commitment
to love each other, come what may.
The Bible compares married love with the love Jesus has for his followers.
He expressed his love by being prepared to sacrifice himself, even to
die for the people he loved. This is amazing, unconditional love. Jesus
never said 'I love you, but
'. In our marriages we can try to
follow his model by loving our partners in a self-sacrificial way, putting
their needs before our own.
The marriage ceremony gives you a new legal status as husband and wife
and a new stability within which your relationship can flourish and
grow. Christians believe that marriage offers the right place for the
fulfilment of our sexuality and that it provides a stable and secure
environment for bringing up children.
For further help and discussion Contact Fr. Lawrie
Jenkins 0114 2377422 or EMAIL